Sunday, December 24, 2017

El Salvador

After a 3:40am wake up, we arrived in El Salvador around 1 PM local time (they are 1 hour behind us) on Thursday afternoon. We were on the happiest plane we’ve ever been on. So much talking and laughing and cheering when we landed. You have to wonder how long it had been for some of them since they’d been home or seen the family that were there to greet them. And oh were they there to greet them! When we walked out of the airport, there were mobs of people holding signs and anxiously waiting to see a familiar face. We felt like celebrities for a millisecond and then we saw our familiar faces of Rodrigo and Juanita. Such a treat!

Rodrigo and Juanita were missionaries in Niger for 12 years, which is where we first met them. They were instrumental in our adoption process, and we became lifelong friends through that. They lived in VA for a little over a year before returning to their home country of El Salvador, and a few months in VA was spent in our guest house. Juanita and I affectionately received our names during that time - Sunshine (me) and Stormy Clouds (her). :)

Upon leaving the airport, we headed to a delicious restaurant for some authentic Latino food. I could eat this food every day! Cheese, beans and fresh tortillas with limitless avocados? Yes, please. With full bellies, we drove about 45 minutes to a large lake formed from a crater. Here, we visited a missionary training center called King's Castle. This was where Rodrigo and Juanita trained and prayed and learned. It was a really special place. We spent about 20 minutes in a prayer center where there had been constant 24 hour prayer for more than 19 years. You could feel the Lord's presence there as we spent our own time praying and praising God for the remarkable things He had done through this center. Wow. We arrived back at their apartment in the middle of San Salvador where we greeted their kids, Nathan and Kaila, and enjoyed my favorite food Juanita cooks - pupusas. 

Friday ended up being a time of unexpected ministry as we joined R &J at the private school attached to their church. Rodrigo is the chaplain there and Juanita teaches a Bible class to high schoolers. We spent time in a few high school classes sharing our testimonies and answering questions about things teens struggle with - drugs, sex, pornography. We had some very authentic conversations, and I was able to connect with a young dancer who struggled with eating issues much like I did. It was awesome how God allowed us an opportunity to share and encourage them in their faith and in the power of their daily choices. That afternoon we ran errands to prepare for our weekend in the mountains.  We also visited a neighboring volcano where we enjoyed coffee and tres leches cake at a beautiful restaurant and then spent the evening at a coffee shop with Juanita's mom, brother and sister-in-law. One thing we consistently saw and loved was the importance of family. And the importance of coffee. No matter the time of day!

On Saturday morning, we left early and took a winding drive to the mountains. After dropping off our things at the family's mountain home we went to the old town of Ataco where there was a Saturday festival going on. We experienced authentic food, visited an old Catholic Church and enjoyed the views of a mountain town. We returned to the mountain home and Rodrigo’s brothers and families arrived shortly thereafter. They welcomed us like long lost family, and we enjoyed dinner and staying up late talking about the politics of America and Latin America, adoption and the challenges our children are facing (they were kind enough to speak English, which was much better than our Spanish). 

After thawing out on Sunday morning from a very cold night (there's no heat, and it was quite chilly on the top of a mountain), we celebrated Nathan’s birthday with a massive piƱata and carrot cake. Then Geoff and I walked and played outside in the gardens, and finished our mountain trip with a visit to the town of Apaneca where we walked in and out of shops and cafes with handmade artisan crafts, local food and El Salvadorean flair. We love this culture!

On our way home, we took a trip to a distant family member's coffee plantation where we saw breathtaking views and close up how coffee is grown. We arrived back in San Salvador Sunday evening, grabbed a bite for dinner and then turned in early to rest.

After the regular breakfast of fresh tortillas, eggs, beans and fruit, Juanita and I visited a  salon she regularly goes to. I had my hair cut and a pedicure all for less than $20. Amazing!

After our relaxing morning, R & J drove Geoff and I to a resort where we stayed 2 nights by ourselves. It was a wonderful way to end the trip with good sleep, sun and lots of reading. This trip far exceeded our expectations and gave us a great love for the Hispanic culture and people. Here's some pictures of this beautiful country and our very blessed visit. 
















Saturday, December 23, 2017

Preparing for Christmas

December is one of our favorite months even with all the busyness. We try and minimize all the activities but there's just too many people we love out there! I'm so thankful to have the kids home for 2 weeks to connect and prepare our hearts for Christmas. Frazier's been enjoying sleeping in his sisters' room every night, which leads to lots of wrestling and late night whispers. Here's a few pictures of what we've been up to. 

My little elf. 

Preparing homeless bags for our annual hot pizza delivery around the city to our friends without a home. Thank you, mom, for all the donations!

Leila performed in her first piano recital at a local church with other students of her teacher. She played "Away in a Manger" and "School Bells are Ringing", and she did very well despite her nerves!

We enjoyed making gingerbread houses with Mary-Michael's class. Leila's school closed 2 days earlier, so she was able to enjoy some of the festivities at Frazier and Mary-Michael's school. 

School party, Polar Express Day and Pajama Day for this sweet kindergartner. I enjoyed working the reindeer food station, reading The Night Before Christmas and setting up for the party. He has a really sweet class and a great teacher. 

Decorating Christmas trees (using upside down sugar cones). Leila was recovering from dental surgery, but she still participated. 

We enjoyed picking out and decorating a very big tree this year. 

Silly faces around the tree!


This is our 3rd year working through this beautiful Advent book by Ann Voskamp. 

May your hearts and minds be readying for Christmas as we celebrate the birth of the One who rescued us. He's changed me, renewed my mind so that I’d like myself and see the good in others and given me the ability to forgive and love those that are hard to love. He is the one I put my hope in even when much of the world arund me finds that crazy. If you're a skeptic of this Jesus, read about Him and get to know Him yourself. God will reveal Himself to you and is ready to hear your questions and doubts. His love for you is so great!!!  

Thursday, December 21, 2017

Happy 6th Birthday Little Man

Frazier,

My Nerfgun carrying, Lego-building, tender-hearted snuggling little boy.  You are growing up so fast. Your baby face is disappearing and you are becoming a young man. I'm not ready! You still have freckles all over your nose, which I love!

You love kindergarten with Mrs. McConville, and I'm certain you've made friends with every single person in your class. I get to eat lunch with you almost every week, and I see how everyone talks to you and tells me how nice you are. One little girl says, "Give me a thumbs up if you like Frazier," and all the kids show me their thumbs up. So sweet. You are doing all the normal school stuff and above where you need to be (though I'm not sure how because I feel like you only got about 10% of the time I gave Mary-Michael in practicing academic stuff - 3rd child!). You are a smartie, and you are eager to read. I'm so thankful!

I love our morning snuggles when you wake up early and want to read on the couch. We love reading Mercer Mayer books, books about animals, Ninjago books and books about heroes in the Bible. Though you're young, you do well listening to chapter books we read aloud, and you especially love when Mary-Michael reads to you. 

Life with your sisters is not always sweet and pleasant, but having older sisters is great training ground for future relationships (at least that's what I keep telling myself). I am often referee between the three of you, but there's not much you want more than to just be with your sisters. Every weekend you get to sleep on their floor, and you are one happy boy. You desperately want them to play with you and like you. 

You started playing basketball this year with your Daddy as head coach and Mary-Michael as your teammate. You're the shortest on the team, but you have lots of energy, and it's a great place to get it out. You're already excited about t-ball this spring!

When you're not fighting bad guys or building things, you may be in the kitchen with me, laying on the floor with Carla or outside playing. You are a great helper in the kitchen and jump in without me even asking. 

I pray your heart continues to stay tender, that you always want to fight for those who are weak or hurt and that you forever know and believe how much you are loved and accepted by God. He has this amazing plan for you! In your room you have this Scripture posted:

"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go." - Joshua 1:9

Yes, my young man. Let Jesus be your strength and believe he is with you always. 

We love you and pray every day you will choose life with Christ. 

Momma and Daddy

My little Christmas elf. 

Preparing for your class Christmas party.

Your first basketball game on the Mavericks team.

For your birthday, you wanted Carter to come play, so we enjoyed donuts and pizza with his family.

You and your buddy since you were babies.

We redid your room this year with Daddy's bunkbed and furniture from when he was a little boy. A couple coats of dark grey paint really transformed it!


We finally painted over the nursery colors on the walls, too.


This is the cleanest your room will ever be, so I had to take a picture. Currently there are a zillion Legos all over the floor. 


All boy!


Dancing with sissy.


Dress up time. 


And more dress up. 


Lego-building at the library. 

Wednesday, December 20, 2017

November Days


Our family small group spent a Saturday before Thanksgiving picking up kids living in the inner city to share a Thanksgiving meal and just spend time with them. 

Here we are on the school buses picking up kids. There were a lot of kids and a lot of noise, but our kids handled it pretty well and made a few new friends. 

Enjoying the Thanksgiving meal at Celebration Church. 

The day before Thanksgiving break, I was able to go with Mary-Michael's class and the rest of second grade to the Science Museum of Virginia. Here's her class. 

My group of young ladies to look after.

In front of the very tall Christmas tree at the museum. 

On Leila's last day of school before Thanksgiving Break, her school hosted Grandparent's Day. It was a treat to have both my mom and my dad there. 

Nonnie love!


All the cousins on Geoff's side, and his siblings, got together for our annual Thanksgiving feast. 


The whole clan.


I'm so thankful for these 4 loves of mine. 


Keesha, Geoff, Kameron and Melissa - the Lawrence Foursome. 

Here we are at ZooLights at the Smithsonian National Zoo.

Uncle Kam and Cousin Jace are so much fun. 

Almost every year after Thanksgiving, we attend a big cattle auction about 15 minutes down the road from us. They breed and sell high quality bulls and cows, and our first 3 cows came from this farm. Here are Mary-Michael, Jacey (our farming partners' daughter) and Frazier on the way to the auction in their matching Soul Farms gear. 

The Dennisons and Lawrences. We purchased a new bull and two bred heifers (will deliver in the spring) at the auction. We have more than 30 cows now. God is good!

And finally, we wrapped up Thanksgiving at Grandad and Nonnie's house with all the cousins (a total of 11 children). Here a few of them are decorating cookies.