Monday, December 22, 2014

Happy 3rd Birthday Frazier!

Dearest Frazier,

What a joy you are to have as a son! Despite the fact that you are a true little boy now, you will always be my baby. You have a zest for life and people that is contagious. And there is no doubt you are a boy through and through with your love for all things that move, dig, can be taken apart, knocked down into a zillion pieces and resemble any sort of weapon (you must have been born with this warrior-like spirit!). 

Yet, you are so tender-hearted and thoughtful under all those swinging swords and warrior faces. This past week you told random people in the store "Merry Christmas!" as they walked by. You are not one to hold back hugs and kisses from anyone. You ask people how they are doing without being prompted, you check on your sister when she's crying, you just care for people!

You still sleep with a paci and night-night, which we haven't even attempted to take away because I didn't want to do that and potty train at the same time. Well, potty training is taking much longer than I thought, so looks like you're the lucky one and will have that paci for a while longer. Seriously though, you don't care if you have "stuff" in your pants and will continue to play til I make you stop. Ugh. You'll get it eventually!

You are a good eater with spaghetti being a favorite and pizza being much lower on the list. You eat raw veggies, fruit and would like to start every meal with yogurt! I am so thankful for your openness!

You were meant to live on a farm - you join Daddy on the tractor any chance you can, you often help carry firewood, you are an expert in mud puddle jumping and sandbox creations, and you would live outside if allowed. You also try to wear your batman rain boots anywhere we go! 

You look up to your Daddy so much, and I am blessed that he is such an amazing role model. We love you, son, and we love your heart. God has great big plans for you, and we can't wait to see them unfold.

Momma and Daddy














Saturday, December 20, 2014

Blessings for Leila - Two Surprise Showers

Surprise! Boy, did God bless me with great friends. Two weeks ago, Geoff and I were headed to take the kids to Aunt Lem's house (Emily) so that we could go on a day date to the VCU vs. UVA basketball game we were invited to attend with some other friends. While driving into the driveway I started to see cars - my mom's, my mother-in-law's, April's...What was going on?! It's not my birthday nor my anniversary. What are we celebrating?! 

Well, you can see they blessed my socks off from the pictures below. Many tears were cried (not just by me, though I contributed quite a few), and I experienced a taste of that unconditional lavish love Christ has for us. What a picture of love for our family and this sweet girl who doesn't even know how many people have been praying for her and love her already. My dear friend, Brandi, who is such a cheerleader and encourager for me orchestrated a wonderful event with the help of some other friends and family. It was a sweet picture of friends from years ago and friends I've only known a little while, church friends, college friends, girls dinner friends, family and all those in between. Leila - you have so many people that love you, and you now have so many beautiful clothes, girly things like dolls and nail polish and stuff for your hair that this momma is going to learn how to use!

I think my favorite part was just remembering how we are all connected as each person shared how we met and a memory or fun thing about our relationship. I loved it! And I now have a scrapbook with pages made by each person that is ready for pictures of Leila's arrival, her first Easter, her dedication, her first trip to the zoo, first trip to Starbucks and Busch Gardens, etc. It's beautiful! God is so good to us, and isn't it His way to bless us when we least expect it or deserve it. Wow.

AND THEN, to top it all off...my amazing women's ministry team that I have served with for the last 6+ years treated me with another shower that was so sweet. I walked in to a beautiful bike and helmet just for Leila, which of course led to more tears. And a beautiful cake with our family tree, and then they blessed me with beautiful blessings and words of prayer they had written for our family. Pass the tissues, please! These women have championed me and my faith and family, and I know I wouldn't be who I am without them.

It was such a blessed weekend. "I thank my God every time I remember you." (Phil. 1:3)





























Friday, December 19, 2014

Good News!

We received notice today that our lawyer received the legal documents we've been waiting for that states we are Leila's legal parents in Niger! Thank you Lord, and thank you prayer warriors. Y'all are amazing! This sweet daughter of ours is getting closer to coming home. Joy joy joy!

Next steps:

Wait for these documents to be translated into English and file I-600 with the US government and wait for the go ahead to go get her!

Our Niger friends are also working simultaneously to establish their official Nigerien nationality. 

What an amazing Christmas gift!

Pictures to come from my 2 surprise adoption showers. Wow, we are blessed.